Helping families maintain their dignity, preserve their assets and protect their children.

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Why Choose a Non-Adversarial Divorce?

Save Time & Money

The streamlined process allows for direct and efficient communication. Using a collaborative team approach encourages solutions that benefit the finances of the family as a whole. No court appearances are required through the process until everything is finalized.

Maintain Privacy

Meetings are held in the privacy of my office, so your personal business is not discussed in open court.

Take Control

Schedule appointments at your convenience and make your own decisions.

Your Values Matter

Your family’s values drive the process. We’ll work to negotiate unique solutions that will address the needs of all family members, especially children.

What is Divorce Mediation?

I act as a neutral third party facilitating discussions between you and your spouse. I help you make your own best decisions while guiding you through every step of the legal Divorce process.

What is Collaborative Divorce?

I act as your attorney as we work in unison with your spouse’s attorney to settle all issues around your Divorce, amicably and respectfully. Most work is done in four-way meetings with both spouses and attorneys present.

Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are both confidential, efficient and cost-effective, and allow your values to be reflected in the decisions that are made.

Let’s discuss which is right for you.

Call to schedule your free consultation today.

203. 222. 1202

I wanted to thank you for everything. The process was as you previewed: smooth, very few hiccups, informative, and fair. I would highly recommend you to people going through divorce. Again, my deepest appreciation for everything.

S.M.

Vicki was a tactful and skillful mediator who handled the complexities of my divorce effectively and promptly. She’s an excellent listener, always returned my calls and messages without delay, and addressed my concerns with empathy and professionalism. I would recommend her as a mediator to any couple seeking counsel with respect to separation, divorce, and other family law issues.

D.L.

Thank you for all your help with this – it wasn’t easy for either of us but you were a pleasure to work with – very professional and a really nice person. I’m sure there were times when you wanted to slap us both!! LOL

T.H.

I want to wholeheartedly thank you Vicki for helping us to find a way through a rather complicated estate with your amazing gifts as a mediator. We were so impressed by your clarity and your evident knowledge and background of real estate law which enabled you to quickly see and understand the big picture and suggest viable options. You brought a warm and grounded presence to the process and moved difficult discussions along in such a masterful way. You were wonderful and I am not sure how we would have done it without you.

it is a pleasure to recommend you.

L.L.

Thank you Vicki. You made a challenging event bearable. I have very much appreciated your support, expertise, consistent communication and frequent updates. If I may ever assist with a client reference, please let me know.

D.F

Eric and I can’t thank you enough for helping us through our mediation process. We were both equally impressed with your fair, organized and highly efficient way you moved us through this difficult process. You’re neutrality was evident, and in our opinion one of the most important factors in choosing an effective mediator. The professionals you recommended to us to assist with our mortgages and tax questions were also top notch and incredibly helpful. The judge commented on the thoroughness of our agreement. Thank you for care and effort Vicki.

C and E

I wanted to let you know that the judge commented that our agreement was very thoughtful and forward-looking. She was clearly impressed with your work. Thanks again for your patience and constructive attitude. Warm regards.

L.R.

I again thank you for your assistance at the time of my divorce. I have a workable relationship with my former wife, mostly for the sake of our sons. I continue to be active in the Straight Spouse Network, helping other people figure out what to do after they realize they are married to a gay person. I am happy for all people to be who they truly are and to be honest with themselves and others about that. If you’ve read this far, thanks; and thanks again for helping me through the worst passage of my life. Every good wish to you in your continuing work at helping others through their membership in the club no one wants to join.

B.B.

Thank you so much for last night. You’re like a lawyer and a therapist, muddling through the muck we got, picking out the important details we can’t see. You’re very wonderful at what you do.

We hope (on the personal side) and don’t hope (on the divorce side) to see you soon.

R.G.

Thanks again Vicki for all your work. I got a bonus when I found you. You are the “trifecta”
1. mediator
2. lawyer
3. accountant
I appreciate all your work to help me through this.

P.N.

Thank you for being a great support to me, a good sounding board, and for representing me in such a professional way. I really appreciate it.

M.B.

Thank you for assisting us with the mediation process. You handled the situation very well.

T.D.

I just wanted to thank you for everything over these last few months. I know the agreement….ensures me a fresh start and a brighter future.

K.C.

Vicki Volper has an amazing way of listening and keeping people calm. She offers a great alternative to the traditional divorce procedure. I would feel very comfortable recommending her.

Jason HornStonehollow Home Inspections

Vicki Volper is very knowledgeable in the area of relationship and divorce mediation. She listens well and has the natural gift of being able to identify and clarify the issues in a conflictual relationship, and in a calming way, present concrete options and solutions for resolution. I wholeheartedly refer my patients or friends to her when the need arises.

Barbara Rassow, DC, CNM, CCDHolistic Gynecology and Women’s Health Westport, CT

Vicki Volper is excellent as an attorney who specializes in divorce and relationship mediation. She is very thorough and caring and is an excellent listener. Vicki’s goal is to have each party maintain their dignity, and most importantly, protect their children. I would highly recommend her to both friends and colleagues should they find the need for conflict resolution in such a highly ethical manner.

Stephanie Rapp